Frequently Asked Questions

How do I apply for a membership?

The link for our membership application can be found on our at the top of our website.

Are there any specific requirements for membership?

We do not have specific requirements that can guarantee you a membership, though we do have a few elements we look for in an application. We do receive a large amount of applications, so just because you include certain elements, does not guarantee your approval.

Does the picture in my application have to be in lingerie?

Absolutely not! This is purely for us to get a sense of how you look, and that you’re a real person.

I applied and haven’t heard back from you?

Unfortunately, this most likely means your application has not been successful. We are not able to give feedback on individual applications, so please always feel free to revise and send it through again.

What is your male/female/couples/non-binary split?

We try to keep our ratios fairly even at all of our events; however, tickets are sold on a first come, first served basis to our members. So, the final ratio is out of our hands.

What venues do you use?

We use a selection of small, upscale, private properties for our events. Because of this we always ask our members to be respectful on their way in and out of the venue.

How many people do you have at your events?

Most of our events are on the smaller side but it can range from 50-180 depending on the event and venue.

Are men allowed to come alone?

We are happy to have single men come along however this is a safe and respectful community. We have a 1 strike policy when it comes to consent and our rules & etiquette, if you breech those or make anyone feel uncomfortable you will be removed from the event and your membership will be revoked

Do you have security at your events?

Yes, we have security at ALL of our events.

Do I have to get involved at an event?

Absolutely not! We are primarily an event based around community, so if you’d like to just have a drink and spectate, you are more than welcome to do so! Your comfort is key.

What is the dress code?

The dress code differs depending on the event, but primarily:

Women – come in whatever makes you feel sexy and comfortable
Men – we ask you wear classic, sexy cocktail hour (no T-shirt, jeans and trainers)
Non-binary – come in whatever makes you feel sexy and comfortable

Please see our rules and etiquette page for more information

Are your venues all accessible?

We aim to make sure that all our members are welcome at our events, however unfortunately, due to several factors out of our control, not all of our venues are able to be 100% accessible. If you would like to request more information about a specific event venue, prior to the venue being announced, please feel free to contact us and we will be happy to advise.

I don’t have my digital membership card, can I still attend?

Unfortunately, for most of our events we now require an up to date digital membership with your full name, clear picture and membership ID present. This is for safeguarding purposes, to ensure that everyone that enters our event is verified. The only exception to this will be our monthly members' socials. You will still need a digital membership card for Happy Hour play socials.